What to Do While You're Waiting For Your Dreams to Come True

Every time the sun all of a sudden starts shining way more than usual for Seattle, and I'm wearing sunglasses from sunrise to sunset, and days are filled with the smell of sunscreen and the taste of watermelon and the sight of the ocean, I always think, Summer, yes, summer is my favorite season. 

But then autumn arrives. 

And every time the leaves change color and it's time to get all muddy searching for that perfect pumpkin at the patch, wear cozy scarfs and sweaters, and drink hot apple cider and pumpkin spice lattes, I always think, Fall, yes, fall is my favorite season. 

But then winter arrives. 

And every time the wind gets so cold you can see your breath, the snowflakes fall outside while I'm reading a book in front of the fire and a Christmas tree lights up the living room, the house fills up with the aroma of the cookies I only make during the holidays baking in the oven, I always think, Winter, yes, winter is my favorite season. 

But then spring arrives. 

And this year, as the daylight lasts longer and the flowers start blooming and everything black and white and brown and gray turns green and yellow and blue and pink, I know the truth. Spring is my most favorite season of them all.

I love summer, autumn, and winter. But there's just something about spring. It's like the whole earth is waking up and if you pay attention, if you take ten seconds to look up from your smartphone, you get to see it happen right before your eyes. This world God created is beyond any description I could ever write; He has truly blessed us all with a glorious place to live out these lives He has given to us. Everything that is seen makes me even more in awe of my God Who is unseen. All that is visible reveals more to me about the One who is invisible. 

Just today, I went for a walk on my lunch break. I love to walk. Rain or shine, you'll find me walking - whether with my umbrella or my shades. There's a coffee shop not to far from the school where I teach and even though my Jeep's parked right there in the parking lot and it would take a ten-minute round trip to go get my vanilla latte, I would miss a lot if I did that. 

Like seeing the pink cherry blossoms blooming down the street, the sparrows fluttering from tree to tree, the purple flowers replacing the brown and gray, long blades of the greenest grass shining in the gold sunshine, the color all around me that surprises me and refreshes me, and makes me realize that spring is almost here. Almost. 

I think our dreams are a lot like this. God plants them in our hearts during the wintertime and for a while, that's all they are - just dreams. We wait and wait and wait for them to grow into something glorious, something that makes a difference, something that causes someone to see the beauty and life in us. 

And finally, finally spring arrives and our dreams awaken and bloom. We begin to see our dreams come true. What had been buried for so long is finally revealed; what had been growing for so long is finally evident. Our dreams start to take off; our lives begin to bloom. 

Yet what I'm learning is that every season is beautiful. Every season of life - not just the blooming, not just the spring. But the waiting, the working, the harvesting, the blooming. All of it is beautiful because Jesus is with us through all of it. He is beautiful and makes our lives beautiful. Every season of our lives. 

I think we so often wait to enjoy life until we graduate from college or get married or publish our book or get our Master's or climb the ladder or this or that. Yet we reach that goal and soon we're pounding pavement chasing after the next. 

With all of my heart, I want to see my book published for God's glory. I'm not working for my own name here. I'm working on this because I am completely and wholeheartedly passionate about this: Jesus Christ has changed my life and He can change yours. In fact, Jesus is changing my life right now. His work beautifying and perfecting me never stops and I love that. He is making me more like Him - more loving, more gracious, more holy -  and it is the most exciting adventure ever. 

Our culture loves a good success story. We love to hear how people achieve their dreams or made the million or started their own business or became famous or whatever it is. But if we're not careful, we'll start living for those moments and miss so many others. 

Our lives aren't just about being successful or that season when all of our dreams come true. It's about all of the ones before and all the ones that will come after. The person you were, the person you're becoming, the person you will be, and also the person you are right now

When you follow Jesus, every moment of your life has meaning and significance. Not just when you begin the ministry or graduate or write the book or get interviewed or speak in front of an audience. Everything matters and how you live through each season matters immensely. I used to think that certain things mattered more to God, but now I see that everything matters. Every person that crosses my path is dearly loved by God and if I cannot love this one person in front of me, how will I be able to love more? Every moment matters and if I spend it longing for tomorrow, what am I missing that God is doing today? Every season is significant, but if I journey through winter obsessed with spring, what will I overlook that's happening right now? 

What does your life look like right now? What is God planting in your life? Instead of asking for anything else, what can you thank God for in this very minute? How can you live with a heart of gratitude to God while you obey Him and trust Him to work out all of your dreams in His perfect timing? 

So, what do you do while you're waiting for your dreams to come true? Thank the One who put those dreams in your heart. God doesn't start something and not finish it. He will complete it and bring it to pass. So, enjoy the journey and thank Him for today, for this moment right now in your life. And for giving you a dream that's bigger than you and makes you rely on Him with everything you have.

Because when you think about it, that's a really good place to be.

Who Are You Living For?

Think about your prayers lately.

What is your heart's cry to God during this season of your life? What is it that's consuming your prayer time? What do you pray about the most? 

Right now, I've been crying out for wisdom more than I ever have. I'm becoming more and more aware of how much I need God's wisdom for every area of my life. Striving toward the dreams God has put in my heart for His glory has brought me to my knees in desperation for His wisdom to accomplish them. 

Praying for wisdom is encouraged in the Word of God. God wants us to have His wisdom and He is more than willing to give it to us when we ask Him: 

"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you" (James 1:5, NIV). 

 

I love this promise! When we pray for wisdom, we can be sure that God will answer our request. 

And He has. God is showing me more and more Truth each day.

And as I've been praying for even more of His wisdom in my life right now, I've noticed that God has really been making me focus on the fear of the Lord.  

That's because having wisdom and fearing God are directly connected.

Listen to this verse from Proverbs: 

"Fear of the LORD is the foundation of wisdom" (Proverbs 9:10, NLT).  

 

Whoa. I read that verse a couple days ago during my morning devotion time and everything just clicked. I've heard that verse hundreds of times. But as I've been seeking wisdom, it just stood out like it never had until now. 

Fearing God is the FOUNDATION, or some translations say the BEGINNING, of wisdom. 

In order for a person to be truly wise, they must FIRST fear the Lord. 

This "fear" is a holy fear. It's doesn't mean to be afraid. It means that we are in absolute awe of God and who He is, and that we revere and honor Him above everyone and everything else in life. It's elevating God above all else and living out our lives with the awareness that He is watching everything we do and He has given us our lives for His glory. 

Living this way in holy fear of the Lord leads to the destruction of every other fear. When you fear God with all of your heart, His perfect love casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Fear of man, fear of the future, fear of anything - it cannot take root in your life because your heart is entirely focused on the reality of God - who He is and who He tells you that are you.

When you fear Him, His love unlocks the chains of fear that keep you afraid and timid. You see more and more of who He is and as you learn more about God, you discover more about yourself because we are made in His image. 

I've come to this place in my life where what God thinks of me matters so much more than what anyone else thinks of me. God's thoughts toward me are everything. His love and His Truth mean more to me than anything.

I used to be a chronic people-pleaser, always somehow hoping to please everyone even though I knew that was impossible. From experience, I've learned that even if you are nice to everyone, there's still going to be someone that doesn't like you for whatever reason. There is no way I could ever please every person on this planet; that's silly and ridiculous and a huge waste of time and energy. God didn't create me so that I could spend my life trying to gain approval from others when He has already given me His approval. And wow - does His approval trump anyone's approval or disapproval. 

Check out this verse from Proverbs chapter 29: 

"Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe" (Proverbs 29:25, NIV). 

 

Get this. Fearing other people is a SNARE. It's deception. It's a trap. It's imprisonment. Do that and you're guaranteed not to be free. 

I feel like someone needs to hear this, so I'll say it: Worrying about what other people think of you, living for people's approval, defining yourself by what someone else says about you instead of what God has said about you - this is complete and utter folly and foolishness. If fearing God is the beginning of wisdom that leads to a life well lived for His glory, then we can assume that the opposite - fearing man is the beginning of foolishness. 

What a sin it would be to live this life to please people! Such a tragedy. Such a waste.

Hear the words of the Apostle Paul:

"Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ" (Galatians 1:10, NIV).

 

God didn't create us to bow down to the approval of other people. That would be like building our lives on sand. He didn't make us in His image for us to try to be conformed into what people want us to be. God's desire is for us to be conformed into the image of His Son, Jesus Christ.

And Jesus wasn't at all concerned with what people thought of him; He was utterly consumed with the Father - what the Father said, what the Father wanted Him to do, what the Father's will was, who the Father is. Jesus gave us the perfect example of how to live life loving God and loving people. He loved people, but He did not live to please them. 

Plain and simple: if we live to please others instead of pleasing God (and by the way, it's one or it's the other - you can't do both), we will miss so much of what God has for us because in order to be like Christ, we are going to have to be different. Holiness, righteousness, purity, humility, selflessness, kindness, unconditional love, uncompromising Truth - these things are not popular in today's world and culture. 

I'm sharing all of this because it's been on my heart for some time. Whatever God teaches me, I want to share with others. There is freedom in Him when we honor Him above all else. He will give us the confidence, boldness, and grace to delight in His approval and to let that be our heart's greatest joy. There is no compliment that is greater and no criticism that can shake you when you know that God approves of you. That He looks down from heaven at your life and smiles to see you, His beloved child, living for Him with wholehearted abandon - becoming the person that He created you to become and doing the good works He has prepared for you. 

May the revelation of God's love for you cast out all fear in your life for the glory, honor, and praise of Jesus Christ. This world doesn't need Christians who are pitiful and timid, afraid and doubting. This world needs Christians who are bold and courageous because we know who God is and who we are. And because we know how much God loves us. Oh, how He loves us!